Rolin has fully recovered from RSV -- thank the Lord! He was outta the game for about a week and a day. It was so nice to see his little smile return and to hear his giggle once he felt better!
In the last month, little Rolin has become much better at sitting on his own, he started solids, he can entertain himself for a good amount of time, he graduated from the infant lounge seat in the bath and he is finally growing some hair. -- sort of a brownish-reddish-blonde (surprised?).
It's been fun to watch him learn something new each day. What hasn't been fun is dealing with the severe sleep regression that set in as a result of RSV. Little man became quite accustomed to sleeping on someone during RSV week -- because he was uber cuddly and also because he couldn't really breathe whilst laying flat. He went from being put to bed without a fight and sleeping 10-11 hours, to refusing to be laid down flat or alone and only sleeping about 2 hours before waking up again.
We tried having him sleep in the bouncy seat. We tried swaddling, we tried just a sleep sack. We tried white noise, we tried lullabies. We tried a night light, we tried pitch black. We tried a later bedtime, we tried an earlier bedtime.
Finally we gave in and let him sleep with us a few nights.
THAT WAS A BAD CHOICE.
Hanging out with his friend hanger.
Then it was worse. I was tired of sit-sleeping in the glider. Justin was just plain old tired. Rolin was tired too.
We decided to try the Ferber method.
The first night was awful. The second night was a little better than awful (I slept through some of his screaming, Justin didn't...). The third night he fell asleep screaming before the first 10 minute period was up (yippee!), but we had to restart the process around 4 a.m. -- it didn't end until about 6 a.m., but we did get another hour of sleep. The fourth night he fell asleep about four minutes into the first round AND STAYED ASLEEP! Well, he woke and cried for 10 mins at midnight, but we just left him to it and he fell back asleep on his own until about 6:30 this morning. Today will be night five.
I know many people have strong or mixed feelings against or for Ferber, but it seems to be working. It is extremely hard to go in and not be able to pick up the little guy, especially when he's reaching out for you and screaming like you've never heard before, and especially when it goes on and on and on, but there is something to be said for this method...at least in the Thompson household.
Still a little glassy-eyed and sick here, but by the next day he was soooo much better!
Rolin's personality comes out more and more every day. He loves to laugh and smile. His feet and my hair (OUCH!) are his favorite toys. He lusts after iPhones, computer keyboards and TV remotes. He loves seeing his dad come home from work. He grins and makes duck lips when he's having a good time. He's ticklish, loves sweet potato, loves bananas and hates broccoli. He is more and more fun to interact with, and I think he even laughs at some of my jokes. Maybe it's my silly face, but he still laughs, so I'll take it!
It's hard to believe he's 7 months old...I can't believe it's March! A year ago this week we watched movers pack up our belongings and we said goodbye to California. Wowza! Speaking of California -- we had a great time! I'll post about that soon.
Do the duck!










